“It takes a long time for a man to know who he is.” I have found that to be true. You think you know, but when life happens, it brings things out of you that you were not aware existed. Circumstances change, and you experience a season where you find out things about yourself you didn’t know at all. Losses and failures; sickness and disappointment – all reshape and rearrange your narrative of how you see yourself. This is not gender specific; everyone is evolving, becoming; you are not finished yet. It takes a lifetime to really know yourself. That is the scary thing about life and relationships…God is not finished with any of us.

T.D. Jakes