1 Peter 4:7 MSG

The same goes for you husbands: Be good husbands to your wives. Honor them, delight in them. As women they lack some of your advantages. But in the new life of God’s grace, you’re equals. Treat your wives, then, as equals so your prayers don’t run aground.

Make your spouse a priority! Put them first and see the love grow. See problems disappear. Experience the peace that will result from it.